Update 25/2/13: Pls Keep your jealous negativity out of my Sex-positive Feminist Bedroom!

Updated 25th Feb 2013: WEll thank you wordpress: WordPress “Pro-sex Feminism” to read lists for listing my article in this to highlight….Clearly there’s enough women with lives and not lower-middleclass-moralising-hypocritical-lardskanks trying to boss other women around because by day, they are low-level typists and shop girls with no power, wannabe sex therapists etc. and by “Facebook”..they think they “rool” with illiteracy ! Thank you darlings! XXO

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To those femi-nazies racist disgrace : 

Hope you enjoyed your very very brief, this is Your Jerry Springer moment!

Updated: 5th Oct 2012, Labour Harriet Harman came out with an atrocious quote bashing page 3 girls and deciding women would rather “bake at home” than do S&M because in her personal opinon that is what “womyn” want.

Quote from Ms Harriet “Pollyanna” Harman: This Quote is making me want to get out the PR whip as I watch Labour try to desperately chase the “lower middleclass morality “dailymail” votes”, I think Nancy Reagan already tried the “repression as a political platform” route..you are a little late :

“Women prefer men who let them watch cookery programmes in peace to those who engage in sado-masochistic sexual practices, Labour’s deputy leader said today.”

Yes, I am sure Germaine Greer has no brains and only got naked because “what else could she do with those tits?” hahahhaa.

Maybe you will just NEVER quite be the Feminist Evolutionary that Germaine was born to be and you are jealous of page 3 girls young, hot bods?

Look at Harriet, turning her back on Working Class girls trying to use their brains AND looks to get ahead…what’s the matter? Chasing the Nick Clegg Reject votes?

I’ve listened to a lot of rant about Pornography. This is a very long debate that started in the 80s and I don’t want to get into the details as it is tedious.

After examining both sides of the Debate for hours after hours and combing through Ms.Catherine Mackinnon in lawschool for more hours on Legislative interventions, I came to the conclusion that theories are all very well, but please keep your negativity out of my bedroom. Thanks!

I am a post-modern sex-positive feminist but above and beyond that I am a modern, intelligent woman in full possession of my faculty who can make up my own mind about what I want in my life. I certainly do not expect Puritanical sexually repressed people to bash other women because they didn’t get their self-confidences together in their own bedrooms. This is a witch-hunt of boring people trying to impose their views on others in the name of “feminist sisterhood” Zzzz! Pathetic! It is agenda-ed and tedious. I’m bored already.

Sex-positive feminism centers on the idea that sexual freedom is an essential component of women’s freedom. As such, sex-positive feminists oppose legal or social efforts to control sexual activities between consenting adults, whether these efforts are initiated by the government, other feminists, opponents of feminism, or any other institution. They embrace sexual minority groups, endorsing the value of coalition-building with members of groups targeted by sex-negativity. Sex-positive feminism is connected with the sex-positive movement.

Rubin writes that anti-pornography feminists exaggerate the dangers of pornography by showing the most shocking pornographic images (such as those associated with sadomasochism) out of context, in a way that implies that the women depicted are actually being raped, rather than emphasizing that these scenes depict fantasies and use actors who have consented to being shown in such a way (Rubin, 1984). Sex-positive feminists argue that access to pornography is as important to women as to men, and that there is nothing inherently degrading to women about pornography (McElroy, 1996; Strossen, 2000). Authors who have advocated sex-positive feminism include Camille Paglia, Ellen Willis, Kathy Acker, Susie Bright, Patrick Califia, Gayle Rubin, Carol Queen, Annie Sprinkle, Avedon Carol, Tristan Taormino, Rachel Kramer Bussel, and Betty Dodson, who could be regarded as the grandmother of the movement.

Naturally I would be! My old school was down the road from Star of the Sea where Germaine Greer went to school in Australia!  Her position on female sexuality was obvious to me growing up in the footsteps of such 2nd wave feminists. I don’t feel the need to be categorised as anything but when asked I would say, “I’m a postmodern feminist !”

What does that mean? What’s it to you? Google it if you want to know! Lol.

If you don’t agree with me, I don’t care.

If you do, I don’t care.

It is your pleasure and your orgasm that you are responsible for as consenting adults and it is not my place to tell you what to do in your bedroom, in the same way as I don’t expect you to thrust your views on me.

Consent is the heart of the issue in human sexuality, not classification.

Consent in the legal sense and consent in the human rights “I respect your integrity & dignity as another human being sense.”

What goes on between consenting adults in full possession of their mental faculty, is just that, private & between consenting adults.

If you don’t like it, don’t do it.

If you do, do it as long as you bothered to check that you are REALLy operating in a full, informed consent, adult situation.

The issue is Consent. So, please stop Porn-bashing me with your rhetorics about Porn. In the salacious, Daily Mirror style repetition of Pornography in order to condemn Pornography, that section of Anti-sex feminists are in fact behaving like Inquisitors in the last round of The Inquisition.

Come to the Enlightenment, people! Read a few more books, be nice to one another, have sex if you want to and don’t if you don’t. Quite frankly, you do not become more interesting by constantly thrusting Pornographical images in other people’s faces in order to PREVENT the Proliferation of Porn in society!

That is really like Screwing for Virginity. What planet are you from? There’s more to human sexuality than black/white. There’s more to eros than the Missionary. There’s more to the human minds than boxes compartmentalising the Masculine and Feminine.

Please get over yourselves and Leave your dirty thoughts out of monitoring other people’s bedrooms!

I disagree with Naomi Wolf who wrote, “Orgasm is the body’s natural call to feminist politics.”

My Orgasm is my own business.

Feminist politics is what I do when I have time when not too busy living the life of an empowered, modern woman who does not feel the need to “hand-fist” into the air in order to show my confidence in my own place/style/substance in the world.  I am very comfortable with being clothed or naked and I don’t feel the need to have a discussion with any of you about what other women should or should not wear.

Fashion is my slave and not my Master. What is kinky to some is filth to others;!

Don’t Foist your dogmatism in the name of “doing it for my own good”!

“She needs feminism because that is the only way she can control others with her lower-middleclass morality and fugly clothes!”

Please go away now and let Sophia the Divine feminine Goddess of Wisdom, Shakti, Kali and all the incredible metaphors of divine Feminine , divorced from the myriods of roles women are boxed which is completely irrelevant to the Divine Feminine, take its course!

Gentlemen, irate at Porn or Pro-porn, what you project onto your inner feminine Animus is your problem and you are 100% responsible as grown men for your personal choices, as long as it is between consenting adults. Leave the Judgement for the Privy council!

Most of all, please stop boring me with dogmatism, it’s just perverse and very unattractive!

14 Comments on “Update 25/2/13: Pls Keep your jealous negativity out of my Sex-positive Feminist Bedroom!”

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